4 ultimate sex moves to set your love on fire

You, yes, you, listen to me… or should I say read on?

Have you been experiencing a crack in your relationship? Is your lover being a little bit lethargic? Are you afraid that the fire is going out?

If yes to any of the above, permit Wha’anda to tell you that something is missing relationship— hot sex!

Solution? Get the fire back…

1. Talk, ask, listen. The first step to getting any relationship back on track is to talk. You can start the talk with some romantic moment, a kiss or a hug can set it off. Things could get messy from there. Remember to talk about his/her sex and sexual fantasies/inadequacies.
2. Try oral. Trust Wha’anda, there is nothing more intimate than oral sex for two partners that are comfortable with each other. If you have not been adding oral sex to the sex menu, the weekend is a good time to try it out with your partner. A good mouth job has a more lasting effect than 'proper sex' and it can lead to intense arousal. But try to get a shower first.
3. Watch something sexy, like porn. Forget all that talk about porn being bad for you. Truth is you and your lover could do you know that both men and women like sex? It is a good turn on for many people. A soft porn movie may be a way to start before you move to hard-core stuff.
4. Try a new sex position: You need to introduce something new to your sex life. One of the new things you could do is to bring in a new sex position. The conventional missionary style is boring and you might want to do some kinky stuff. (Get some ideas here). The doggy style is one of the best positions to guarantee maximum sexual satisfaction for both of you because it puts the man in control and hits the woman’s G-spot
5. Create a shower hour moment together. Have you had a shower moment with your lover? It can be really intimate and fires can start from there. Take turns scrubbing each other and then have sex standing. It will be cook to install a hand rail in your shower.

4 deadly sex mistakes both men and women make

Sex is an important part of most relationships.

Where everything is okay, sex is usually there and where it is not okay, you might find sex responsible.

Many couples married and unmarried who are now having a slow pace in their sex life once had it hot and steamy.

Somewhere along the line, one or both of them began to make mistakes that you might also be making now,

Slowly but surely these mistakes erode their love connection and they drift apart.

If you don’t want that to happen to you, then you have to read on…

1. Being afraid to initiate sex with your partner. You must realise that sex is communication. You must be able to communicate with words and action that you are ready to get down and dirty. This is more common with women who want to be a ‘good girl’ by remaining passive, even when they are on fire down below. Trust me; he/she would appreciate it that you want them always. Everyone wants to be needed, pursued, and craved.
2. Being afraid to try something new. One of the quickest ways of losing your lover is to refuse to accept new tings sexually. Now, you must understand that you don’t have to accept your lovers’ every whim. But you must be willing to give in sometimes. The reason is that your partner may find what you don’t want to offer in someone else. Sex is better when something new is introduced.
3. Being too afraid to talk with your partner during sex. Like I said earlier, sex is communication and is it a mistake to let it be a one sided thing. If you are not enjoying something, tell your partner. If you want something, tell your partner. The danger of not speaking is that you will not enjoy the sex and it will rub off on your partner. Say what you like and don’t like!
4. Being selfish and unwilling to give back. Sex is a give and take thing so you must be always ready to give as much as you take. This goes mainly to men who lose interest in sex when they get an orgasm, leaving the woman unfulfilled. If he/she gives your oral sex, give it in return. Just be ready to give and take. This also includes pleasing your partner when you may not be in the mood.

5 simple reasons good relationships go bad

Sometimes you see a couple who have been together for a while and everything seems to be going great, then suddenly the relationship comes to an abrupt end.

The first question that comes to mind after this is "what went wrong?"

Well, you didn't see it coming, but here are 5 reasons why a good relationship could go bad.

1. Unchecked Emotional Baggage: Now, hopefully your partner's baggage doesn't include a surprise child, but we have heard worse. The biggest type of baggage which will stop the best relationship in its tracks? Unresolved emotional issues. All of us carry around wounds we've received as children, or in past relationships, but the key is how willing you are to examine them, understand them, and work through them. Left unchecked, you'll likely encounter the same problems in every relationship you start. Self-exploration is a wonderful thing!
2. You (or He) Stopped Trying: "Things started out great! He planned nights out, made me dinner, and now I can't get him off of the couch!" Some people put their best feet forward when trying to woo their partners, but once they are feeling comfortable, they stop putting any thought or energy into the relationship. This can be a fatal error. Both partners have to give in a relationship, and that means sharing responsibilities, thinking up date ideas, and providing dinner (even if it's take-out!).
3. You Started Criticizing: A once-fantastic relationship can turn negative when one of the parties starts picking apart the other. There really isn't room for this in a flourishing relationship, where both people should be lifting one another up — not tearing them down.
4. You Got Too Physical Too Fast: It takes time to form the healthy emotional circuits needed to sustain a lasting relationship. Trust and the willingness to commit can't be rushed. But surging sexual energy can shut out a potential partnership if switched on too early. Becoming physically intimate can open up a large amount of issues that put pressure on a fledgling relationship, so proceed at a pace that feels right for you.
5. There's Too Much Distance: An emotionally distant partner can be frustrating, which is why it is important to keep the communication flowing. When the talking and sharing stops, an invisible wall goes up, which can lead to some very unhappy endings. When it comes to a long-distance relationship (LDR), it can certainly work, usually if there is an end goal in sight (knowing that eventually you will be living in the same city!). If you are entering into a LDR and you happen to be jealous or insecure, then you are in for a tough road ahead. It's best to really consider whether you can handle these types of challenges — or not.

5 fantastic ways to revive your marriage

Even good and healthy relationships can turn sour over time. Relationships need work from both the partners. It can never work in isolation.

However, it doesn't mean that you can't revive your relationship or marriage if it is in troubled waters. You need to put yourself in your partner's shoes to understand what he/she is going through. This way, it will help you empathise with your partner and work towards reviving your marriage.

You should never give up on your partner. By following these simple tips, you can overcome the midlife crisis that your marriage is going through. Take a look at these ways to keep your marriage healthy.

1. Make your relationship a priority: A mistake we often do in today's world is that we take things for granted. It can be your job, friend or even spouse. The greatest thing you can give a person is your time. Value it when somebody gives it to you. Prioritise your relationship. Give it the necessary importance. This festive season, you can take the time out to plan and do things for your significant other.
2. Express love to your partner: Expressing love to your partner is important to keep the spark in the relationship alive. It's the little things that you do for each other. These little things do matter. A hug in the morning or a coffee session with your partner or just a cuddle at night can do wonders to the relationship. And remember, these expressions of love are to be followed strictly.
3. A little flirting never hurt anybody: Getting married doesn't mean you should stop being romantic or flirtatious. Technology has grown by leaps and bounds. Use it to your advantage. Take selfies, maybe naughty ones or make stupid faces or just have fun. Or you can leave each other love notes which tease about the things to come. Anything that works for you and your partner. You can be assured that your marriage will be revived by this.
4. Take her out on a date: Remember the special things you did for her at the start of the relationship? Well, why not start them all over again. Take her out to that cool jazz club and dance your hearts out to the music all night. You can still take her out on a date and have fun. Revisit that same old pub or dig for some new places. Around this time of the year when everyone is pretty much partying, you both will love it.
5. Give your partner a surprise gift: Nothing makes someone happy than a surprise gift. Why not you make some handmade gift that suits your partner's likes or needs? This way your partner will understand that you care for his/her happiness. And this festive season makes it more than appropriate to indulge in such things.

7 types of love you may experience in life

Even though most people associate love with romance, there are tons of different types of love out there.

Movies usually stick to portraying romantic love, where two people fall head over heels for each another, and end up getting married and having little babies.

However, there are different types of love that you may have already experienced without realizing it:

1. PLATONIC LOVE: Love doesn't always have to have a sexual element to it. Don't you have friends that you absolutely adore? If you would do anything for your bestie, but don't feel any romantic or sexual attachment to them, then that's platonic love. It's one of the types of love that occurs the most often, because there are so many people in your life that you have platonic connections to.
2. UNREQUITED LOVE: No one wants their love to be unrequited, but it happens pretty often. If you've ever fallen in love with someone that just didn't feel the same about you, you've experienced the pain that goes along with this type of love. It's heartbreaking, but it's a part of life. It helps you learn how to handle pain, and more importantly, how to grow from it.
3. TRUE LOVE: This is that love that you see in films. It's when two people are crazy about each other. There's not just a single component to this type of love. When you're truly in love, you adore the other person's mind, heart, body, and soul. It's the strongest type of love that there is, and you're lucky if you're able to experience it.
4. LUSTFUL LOVE: You're super into the hot guy you see every day on the train, but you have no clue what his name is. You don't know anything about his personality, and frankly, you don't care. You've created an identity for him in your head, and that's good enough. You don't really want a relationship with him; you just want to taste those gorgeous lips.
5. PUPPY LOVE: This temporary love is what you feel when you have a major crush on someone. It usually occurs when you're a child or a preteen because it's filled with innocence. Everyone has experienced this, at least to a certain extent. It's called puppy love, because you worship the person like a little doggie does his owner.
6. UNATTAINABLE LOVE: Are there any celebrities you'd love to date, even though they're thirty years older than you and currently married? That's the type of unattainable love that we've all experienced. Even though we know it's virtually impossible to get together with an older star, that doesn't stop us from daydreaming about them. They're so darn perfect, so how could we resist? It's human nature, after all.
7. SELF-LOVE: Don't you just love how awesome of a person you are? If you don't think that's true, you have some work to do. You've all heard about how important it is to love yourself before you love anyone else. If you're not the biggest fan of yourself, then start listing all of your great qualities. You need to realize just how amazing you are--and you are amazing!

Love is what makes the world go 'round. Which types of love have you experienced so far?

3 ways to know if he is the right man for you

It can be really hard to tell if a guy is for real when you just meet him or after going on a few dates with him. Well, have no fear, because there are a few traits to help you understand whether he's the real deal.

So what are the ultimate traits of a good guy? He is honest, kind, and reliable. If a man has these three traits, he will be successful in each of the areas discussed below.

Being careful and cautious about letting him into your life and heart will allow you to keep the bad guys out, leaving room for the good guys who deserve a real chance.

1. Work history: Hands down, one of the most important factors in determining the quality and character of a guy has to do with his work history. If you want a drama-free romantic future, start with a guy who has a job and knows how to hold onto it. In fact, going to school — undergrad, graduate, or vocational — can count as a job, too, because it shows that he's committed to getting educated and finding a job that suits him. Sure, some men may be out of work because of the down economy, so don't hold that against them. What you do want to see with such men, however, is persistence in finding another one. You don’t need to complicate your life by taking care of and providing for a grown man!
 


Questions to ask: Many men hate the job question ("What do you do for a living?"), because they fear that women are trying to figure out how much money they make. Rather than ask him what he does for a living, ask him if he likes the work he does or if he's been in the same job for a long time. Get a sense of whether he likes his job and gets along well with his co-workers. Ask him how he ended up at his job or developed interest in his line of work. A man who is stable at work is often stable in the rest of his life, too.

2. Relationship with his family: Most people mistakenly believe that a good guy has good relationships with his parents and siblings, but what happens if his parents and/or siblings are a little nuts, and he's decided to detach from them a bit to save his own sanity? The truth is that family dynamics are complicated, so don't judge him too quickly by his relationship with his family.

Questions to ask: Ask, "What's your relationship like with your mom and dad?" or "How often do you get together?" If there is an upcoming holiday, ask if he is choosing to spend it with extended family. If he's not, ask him why and listen closely to his response. You want to sense that a man cares about his parents and siblings, and that he makes an effort to sustain or improve those relationships. Judging a man by the relationships he has with his family of origin is often — but not always — a good measure of what kind of man he is.

3. Relationships with friends: The friends a man chooses to have in his life tell you a lot about him. In addition, the kinds of activities he engages in with friends says even more about him. For example, does he tend to hang out at a sports bar with his buddies, or does he prefer a game of tennis at the local park? Is he someone who tends to like to hang out with just one or two buddies, or does he like the action of larger groups which offer more stimulation?

Questions to ask: Ask, "How many days each week do you like to get together with your buddies?" Prompting him this way ("How many days…”) as opposed to more generally (“Do you like to hang out with your buddies?") will result in getting a more accurate response. You can also ask him what he and his buddies do when they're together. Finally, a great measure of a good guy is having friends and carrying on those friendships for many years. Ask, "Where do you know [insert name] from? Do you still talk to people from high school?" A good guy will usually still talk to at least one good friend from high school, because good guys are loyal and committed to the people they care about.

If you like your new guy's friends, proceed; if you don't, seriously consider ending the relationship. Figuring out whether a guy is a truly good person or just one who says he is is not a simple endeavor. In fact, it takes talking to a man over a long period to determine who he is and whether he is a good match for you. But focusing on the three areas above will give you a constructive starting point. As you get to know him, talk about him to your friends so you can hear their feedback. Sometimes friends make the best dating coaches!

12 creative ways to announce your engagement

He asked the question and you said “Yes!” Now you need to spread the word to family and friends.

Instead of changing your relationship status on Facebook or sending out a mass email, get creative with these 12 fun ideas.

1. Throw Yourself a "Surprise" Party: Post proposal, invite your friends over for an impromptu cocktail party (or housewarming if you recently moved in together) and throw yourself a "surprise" engagement party.
2. Make a Video: Take the more traditional text message up a notch and make a quick video on your mobile device to send out to friends and family.
3. Wear it: Celebrate your engagement–as well as your love of Beyoncé with a cheeky T-shirt announcing your new status.
4. Let Your Pet Do it: Who doesn't love looking at photos of cute dogs or cats? You can have your fur baby do the announcing for you with the help of a strategically placed chalkboard.
5. Post a Photo: Whether you have a friend take it or plan a professional shoot, there are plenty of creative photo options to announce your engagement. Then simply post the pic on Facebook or Instagram, and let the well wishes roll in.
6. Deliver some sweet treats: While it might not be possible to send this to everyone on your potential guest list, you can send some treats that announce your engagement to immediate family and your closest friends (like those you'll be asking to be in the wedding party).
7. Create a Timeline: A timeline of your relationship–from that first meeting to the moment you said "Yes!" – can work as a unique announcement.
8. Send out a telegram: Literally. Get a bunch of these printed and mail them to your closest family and friends.
9. Celebrate your Interests: Take this moment as a way to give people an insight into your relationship. Do you love to play Scrabble together? Is going to baseball games your favorite pastime? Use it as a jumping off point in your announcement.
10. Have fun with it: You don't have to take things too seriously–after all, this is a happy occasion. Sending out a card or photo that will get people laughing is a good way to start off the wedding planning process.
11. Design a Wedding Website: If you're talented in WordPress, you can design a wedding website and simply send out the link to family and friends. You can then use the site to post info about your upcoming nuptials, including dates, times, hotel info, registry links and more.
12. Use props: Take a photo drinking from a mug with a short message, then share it via social media.