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1. Wives, keep yourself more attractive and thinner than your husband.There is science to this. I promise! And before you get mad at me, get mad at her if you want to.
2. Focus on the positives/praise-worthy moments.There is (according to research) an ideal praise-to-criticism ratio. We have to learn how to catch each other doing something right. I remind my fellow men of God this all the time.
3. Husbands should help out domestically. This leads to more/better sex and happiness at home. It turns out that washing a few dishes goes a loooooooong way to help and heal a marriage.
4. People who smile in photos divorce less often. The eyes are the windows of the soul. Perhaps this is more pertinent to the singles, but it is no less true. Look at photos. You can see whether they are hard-wired for happiness or grief. Agree? Disagree?
5. Watching romantic comedies causes relationship dissatisfaction. You have to learn to free yourself from the fantasies.
6. Divorce is contagious. The people with whom you spend your time matters A LOT! You have to be intentional to place yourself in the company of those who are striving to make it. Quitting too soon becomes a habit. You can catch that attitude. Get around those who are happy and know how to work through it when they aren't. Everything could hinge on this.I've also come to understand that you must work to keep the "love bank" full. Small kindnesses, gestures, non-sexual touch are all ways to do this. (Guys, even if Valentine's Day doesn't mean much to you, it probably means something to her. A unique Valentine's Day gift for her can go a long way!)
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