ESSENTIAL QUALITIES YOU NEED IN A MATE

Five essential qualities you need in a mate-
1.Faithfulness-A faithful person is loyal and demonstrate an allegiance to others.As you observe this person in his social relationships or business practices, does he pass the test of loyalty?Is this someone who keeps her promises/does this person has the capacity for fidelity?Have there been past incidences of infidelity or disloyalty in former relationship?
Many relationships, start out of a sense of disloyalty to another.Never continue a relationship with someone out of unfaithfulness unless you are willing to deal with heavy consequences.
2.Honest-An honest person is genuine, and free of deception.This quality of honest encompasses three aspects:words,actions,and person hood.First,it has to do with the word,can you trust him to tell you the truth?Does he mean what he says?Is he one to lies or deceptions?Second, honesty involves actions and behaviors,does he conduct daily behaviors in an upright manner?Does others consider him to be credible,reputable and respectable?Are you able to discern his inner qualities over a period of time, or does this person have so many layers of defenses and disguises that you cannot penetrate.
3.Committed-The idea here is to find someone who can demonstrate a life style of commitment , not someone who just verbalize his commitment.Anybody can say, "yes, i'm committed to you".But do they have what it takes to be committed to the relationship for the long haul?
4."Forgiving-"Forgiveness is simply releasing person from the debt you perceive they owe you".It is about letting go of the need to punish resent or hold grudges when you have been wronged.What kind of a person are you dating?Does he hold grudges or resentment and quick to condemn or slow to release orders of the hook?A  successful relationship between two imperfect people must be bathed in an atmosphere of daily mutual forgiveness.
5.Giving-This quality is not all about giving material gifts but, rather the capacity of selfless behavior.Giving means putting others first.Most importantly, a giver desires to see you grow and to love you in a way that promotes wholeness.When the romantic love fades(which indeed it will), a relationship can be sustained by a deeper kind of love,the kind that seek to see you grow.