Friday, September 5, 2014
HOW TO STOP PEOPLE FROM RUNNING OVER YOU
HOW TO STOP PEOPLE FROM RUNNING OVER YOU
only way to stop people from running over you is to let your yes be yes, and your no be no.Too many daters don't know where to draw the line.Follow this principles, and you will become a healthy line drawer, a dater who sets appropriate boundaries.
1.Your body belongs to you-You must draw definite lines in the physical/sexual area, or you will be blitzed in the dating process. Physical boundaries include the ability to say no when your partner wants to go beyond what you believe is appropriate.if you don't set your boundaries before all the heavy breathing starts, then it will be difficult to stop that person from running over you.
2.Your emotions belongs to you-Emotions are strange animals that often seem unpredictable and uncontrollable.However, you and I are still responsible for our emotions and how we express them in our relationships.
3.Your thought belongs to you-No one can think your thoughts for you and no one can know your thoughts unless you choose to reveal them.Mental boundaries are all about taking ownership of your thoughts, and not expecting others to read your mind.If you repeat belittling thoughts to yourself such as, "No one would ever want to go out with me" Learning how to take control of your thoughts on one hand, and how to express them to your partner on the other will make your relationships run smoothly. Please post your comments after reading.
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